5 Self-Help Books That Saved My Sanity

5 self-help books that helped keep my sanity

I’d love to say that I am a bad-ass that has gotten through most of my life on my own – which isn’t far from the truth. However, I’ve had a lot of assistance over the years in the form of self-help books. There are many other self-help books I have read over the years, but these five books truly mark […]

The Truth Is That Everybody Lies

everybody lies

“It’s a basic truth of the human condition that everybody lies. The only variable is about what.” ~ Dr. Gregory House MD   Dr. House might be a fictional character, but that line from the TV show House has truth written all over it. Everybody lies—plain and simple, a fact of life. There are varying […]

An Open Letter to All Cheaters

open letter to cheaters

Dear Liars and Cheaters,   I am writing to you today on behalf of all of those you have hurt, demeaned and damaged, both past and present, in relationships.   I understand that sometimes the temptation is so easy to yield to; especially in this media-rich day and age that almost encourages cheating and lying. […]

Everyone Hates Fat Girls and Other Lies I’ve Dispelled

everyone hates fat girls lie

I am a fat woman. I’ve been fat all my life it seems. I can remember as far back as kindergarten when the doctor told my parents I was ten pounds overweight. It’s sad I was taught to hate my body at such a young and tender age by the one person who should encourage […]

All About That Kink – Approaching Your Lover about BDSM Play

all about that kink

Has the book or the movie Fifty Shades of Gray gotten you a little overheated and curious about BDSM play? You’re not alone, girl! I’m sure by now you’ve at least Googled what BDSM is (bondage/discipline, dominance/submission, sado-masochism). But reading about it isn’t enough, am I right? Being Dominant with your lover is a lot […]

6 Signs You’re Dating a Narcissist

6 signs you're dating a narcissist

Remember the mythological story of Narcissus? Narcissus loved no one except himself. He wanted love, attention, and praise from everyone. He shunned the love of the beautiful wood nymph Echo and by doing so angered Nemesis, the goddess of revenge. Nemesis attracted Narcissus to a pool of water, whereupon seeing his own image in the […]

Embrace Your Inner Submissive

submissive woman

Due to the recent popularity of the Fifty Shades books, The once taboo and underground D/s (Dominant/submissive) lifestyle has been brought to the surface and into the light of popularity. Of course, with popularity comes misunderstanding. Contrary to some popular opinions, being a submissive woman does not make you weak. Being a submissive lover can […]